India society is not popular of remarriage after death of a husband mainly because of cultural, emotional and social factors associated with second marriage. But it impacts not only the new marriage getting into it but also the families, children from the old marriages, the friends of the couple. As with other second marriages people face many problems but these marriages give people a new lease at life and chance to be happy and fulfilled.
Indian astrology and palmistry are age-old practices that could actually be followed in India to overcome coule problems and attain a healthy married life. Amongst several other books which are available in this field, the most commonly used an well known ancient textual prescription is called the Lal Kitab which comprises of four volumes of remedial measures and which offers the most enriched understanding about the multifaceted issues of human life. These books are in Hindi, Urdu, and Sanskrit, and these are providing easy, working, and suitable solutions separately for various/aspects of life problems including those connected with second marriage.
In this article, you will come to know about some of the Lal Kitab remedies that could be performed to overcome problems related to second marriage and to leave a betterfuture.
1. Remedy for Delayed Second Marriage:
Arguably, one of the biggest challenges that anyone thinking of remarriage faces is that they often take so long to find a suitable spouse. As per this, the Lord of the Seven Venus holds the major authority over the relationships, especially in the second marriages. To enhance the flow of Venus in one's life and attract a suitable partner for a second marriage, individuals can follow the following remedies:
a. North facing pit for water with a copper container submerged in it must be maintained. Spend silver coins and pour them into the water on Tuesdays and saturdays affinate and donate the water to a river or any other water source.
b. Burn sesame oil fire in the Friday. Pronounce a Venus incantation as you do so.
c. It is herbal want you plant a peepal tree (Sacred fig) in your courtyard or nearby area. Water the tree and give it milk on Tuesday and Friday.
d. To have Venus blessings on you, place a golden or silver ring on the index finger of the right hand.
2. Removing Negative Energies from the Previous Marriage:
Lal Kitab too holds bad energies arising from first relationships as a hindrance to second time marriages. To eliminate these negative energies and pave the way for a new beginning, follow these remedies:
a. On a Friday, take a red candle and burn a red paper on which you have written the name of your ex-spouse along with all the bad feelings you had before divorce. After that put the ashes of the said paper in your garden or better still hide it under a tree.
b. Rub sesame oil mixed with turmeric and place a swastika sign near the main door of your house. It will help protect from evil eyes and all types of bad energies which are present in today’s world.
3. Harmonizing Relations with In-Laws:
In second marriage, both partners should be on good terms with the in-laws in order to increase the chances of success in the marriage. This also means that parents in law can, indeed, be instrumental for an incredibly joyous and productive married life. The following remedies can help improve relations with in-laws:
a. It is advised that you should put an unaçked rice bowl at the north –east corner of the house. Chant a mantra for your in-laws and on the full moon day offer something like rice to the moon.
b. Everyday light the ghee lamp for the pictures of your in-laws and offer prayers to their presence.
c. Do a special puja for your spouse and their parents on their birth day. Present sweet and fruits to the deities and take the prasadam to your in-law’s place.
4. Strengthening Bond with Children from the Previous Marriage:
Spouse’s children from the previous marriage significantly influence … the success of second marriages. To strengthen the bond with your children and ensure a harmonious relationship, follow these Lal Kitab remedies:
a. Touch a mango tree with sweets and fruits on Sunday. This will make you happy in your relation with your children and there will be harmony.
b. Pick a red colored paper and write the names of your children on it, and place the paper under a watermelon on Sunday. Doing this will help you build a good relationship between your children and your new husband/ wife.
c. It is also insisted to perform a special fire ritual every Sunday using mustard oil only. Prescribing the mantra for the children’s welfare you make movements for performing the ritual.
5. Enhancing Financial Stability:
And herein lies the requirement of finance stability of the family for the second marriage to be consider. The following remedies from the Lal Kitab can help improve the family's financial situation:
a. Keep a vessel of water and sugar in copper at the north east part of your abode always. Pour more sugar into the water weekly and dump the water in a river, stream or any other water body.
b. It is advisable to by a gold or silver fish from the market to keep in the locker or safe. It will ensure that the family is living a good standard of living, the kind of wealth that will keep them living that way.
c. Even you have a small iron safety pin with its head pinched flat at a corner, try to stow one in your pocket or handbag all through the day. This shall assist to attract wealth and financial stability.
Remarriages are always considered a sensitive issue but with right cures and help of Lal Kitab people can get out of this and have bright future ahead. By doing these remedies, unpleasant experiences can be left behind, tensions with in-laws and children can be soothed, and conditions for a second successfully married marriage can be created. The most important part is to practice them as much as you can – without forgetting to remain be positive about it. And with commitment and passion into these traditions, indeed one can keep changing one’s lives and be happy in the second marriage.
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