Married life is the great mystery of love where two people are connected together and become one mighty force – one powerful team. It is said that marital bliss, marital satisfaction bring happiness and that happiness comes from imprinting on the mental, emotional as well as physical health of the couples. Subsequent to the Lal Kitab, also known as the Red Book, of ancient India, there are numerous remedies recommended for a happy married life. There are in fact six books of the Lal Kitab but almost all of them contain informations about the helvenile astrology and the remedies. Here in this article, the writer will discuss some simple Lal Kitab remedies to make the married life happy so that couples can take proper care of their relationship.
1. Gems and Their Significance
The most famous and widely used remedy from the Lal Kitab for the married life is gem stones solution. These it is believed to have powerful influences on a person’s life and may counter affecting planetary energies that may affect married life. There are many forms of gemstones, some of which are recommended in the Lal Kitab, which are linked with various planets and their influences. Some of the most common gemstones for married life are:
- Diamond (for Venus): You can say that having a diamond gives you more love, affection, and a deeper understanding in the marriage.
- Ruby (for Sun): A ruby crystal improves intimacy and sexual desire between couples hence increases energy of the two partners sexually.
- Cat's Eye (for Ketu): This kind of gemstone helps to clear up misconceptions, brings patience, and make couples understand each other better.
2. Rudraksha Beads
Rudraksha beads is another powerful cure from Lal Kitab for successfully leading married life. These beads are obtained from ELA tree which is considered to have evolved from the tear drop of Lord Shiva. The counts can vary between a Rudraksha rosary as the type or size of the beads of the string may be different from the other. For marriage became better the Lal Kitab advises wearing a Rudraksha mala with twenty seven beads. The energy it is believed to have is that it cleans the heart chakra thus leading to increase in love, compassion and patience.
3. Lal Kitab Yantras
Yantras are geometrical patterns which are used to focus cosmic energy for the intention of bringing about a specific result. And in the life partner or married life, the Lal Kitab also gives various Yantras for enjoying happy married life and long life too. Some of the popular Yantras include:
- Venus Yantra: It is believed that this Yantra will prove to be beneficial in order to get romantic linked improved, bonded or attract love as well. It should be mounted preferably at the south-eastern part of the house or the bedroom.
- Sun Yantra: The Sun Yantra works to strengthen and amplify the flame of love and confidence, then affirmation thus improving on a healthy marriage. It can be installed in the south west zone of the house.
- Mercury Yantra: This Yantra is useful in making couples understand each other. It should be placed in a north east direction of the house.
4. Nakshatra Matching
In the ancient tradition of India the matches between a bride and a groom are made by knowing their Nakshatras which are nothing but specific lunar constellations. Lal Kitab mentions that a happy and successful marriage can only be possible if Nakshatra compatibility is considered foremost. In the Lal Kitab, there are 27 Nakshatras and each of them is governed by a particular deity to whom the attributes and disposition of the born individuals belong. When the bride and groom’s Nakshatras match prop regularly lead to a happy marriage and full of love.
5. Akarshan Mantra
The Lal Kitab also has a very effective Akarshan mantra (attraction mantra) for married life but that is as simple as well. The mantra is as follows:
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- "Om Shukraya Namah Swaha"
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You should repeat this mantra every day after the performance of the night prayer or when offering prayer to Lord Ganesha. The mantra works well to love and admire one’s spouse thereby assisting in building happy marriage.
6. Home Remedies
Apart from astrological remedies, the Lal Kitab also provides several simple home remedies that can help improve married life:
- Preparing and consuming food with the spouse at least once a day: Eating meals together creates togetherness and the togetherness becomes the emotional attachment between partners as they do it so frequently.
- Expressing gratitude towards each other: This makes the roots of love&respect to grow deeper because people should be appreciating the efforts made by each other in the relationship.
- Giving gifts: Couples should use quality gifts to improve love, affection, and even happiness in the marriages.
- Avoiding arguments: It's stressful and competitive and these can destroy marriage. This is because conflict should be resolved byμερ and without compromising the serenity of the relationship between the two partners.
Conclusion
Needless to say, through gemstones and Yantras, home remedies and mantras, the Lal Kitab has it all for a happy and lasting married life. But it important to note that the above remedies can help in giving marriage a healthier environment but healthy marriage involves hard work, understanding, and compromise from the two marriage partners. With such Lal Kitab remedies, implemented and disclosed love and communication, the couple can make the right start and follow a happy marriage.