Marriage is a special event in the life of any person, or one of the serious steps in the development of a couple. But, seek for a perfect partner in life and getting married to your partner at the right time is sometimes very cumbersome. This is where ancient Indian totke and upaay which has been practiced for years can assist. In India Vedic astrology they are many mantras, rituals, and remedies that purposes to remove obstacles that hinder marriage and bless a person.
There are basically two main totkes for marriage and these are worshiping Lord Ganesha, who is the god of removing barriers and the second one involves the role of a wife. WHILE SAIDING ‘OM GANESHAAYA NAMAH’ WE PRESENTS PRAYERS AND SWEETS TO LORD GANESHA TO OBTEIN HIS FAVOUR. Praying to Lord Ganesha with vermilion (sindoor) on his image put in home daily along with sweet modaks can bring happiness in married life.
A second strongly recommended totke is to chant Mangal Dosha Nivaran Mantra ‘Om Namo Bhagwate Rudraye…Sarva Bhaya Vinashaye’ every day. This mantra is about Lord Shiva who shower health and happiness on individuals who are still looking for their ideal partner. Noctorious items including alcohol and non vegetarian food is not taken on Monday and even water or milk offered on Shivling also brings good luck.
Even unmarried girls can go for the Solah Shringar upaay on the Fridays in the night. They should wear 16 ornaments such as Bindu, Bangles, Toe rings, Anklets and others before praying to lord Parvati for a good husband. Married women may also try this without the toe rings.
There are many name totke which astrologers advise people to have special name starting the name of unmarried boys and girls attract marriage proposal. To ensure safety and certain victory, wearing particular gems or charms, certain combinations of rudraksha, or ornaments blessed by priests.
Kaalsarp dosh nivaran puja is a customized ceremony facilitated by expert panditas to purify Kaalsarp dosh which is considered calamitous serpent defect in someone ‘s birth chart – which is said to hamper marriages and relationships.
Other causes which astrologers find responsible for the prevention or delay of marriages include buri nazar (evil eye) and dosh (defects) in the kundli or horoscope. Such negative energies and doshas are prevented through certain lal-kitab upaay through using mantras and charities.
Taking fresh grass (durva) to the cattle, especially cows in the morning, and sweets to the young girls in the evening on Fridays is specially meritorious. So is showing respect to the elderly, and the family in generational aspect as well as the priest. According to cultures, propitiating the gods by oiling ghee lamps as you pray also repels evil spirits that stall your marriage.
There are also vashikaran totke by using herbs, by using fragrance like amber, there are procedure of locking the hair strand of a Shivalinga on Mondays or Friday for getting desire marriage proposal and to attract or to get a life partner for marriage. However, the ethical astrologers should not encourage anyone to influence the emotions of their target without that person’s consent.
There are some techniques which can be followed at home by hearing some chants and home remedies, but the difficult vedic procedures should always be taken from the learned vedic scholars & vedic astrologers – so that the procedures yield positive results as desired. Finally, it may be seen that ‘Punya’ or worshipping God and performing one’s Karma without the desire for the fruits thereof is the optimum course to obtain blessings and grace for ‘Mahas’ – major events in ones’ life.
Well, above all these were the famous totke and upaay in India for those strictly sticking to the Indian culture who were in trouble for not getting married soon or facing some or the other problem related to proposal and marriage ceremonies. Although there is no guarantee on when the changes will start to show, or when the results will be visible, those who truly believe in it see a positive change in their marriage prospects in the process.